Love In The Air

We love because he first loved us. I John 4:19 NIV

Are you looking for that perfect verse for your Friday’s Hallmark Valentine’s Day card? You might have a go with some of these timeless quotes. Cartoonist and Peanuts creator Charles M. Schulz wrote, “All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn’t hurt.” That only works if you buy the good chocolates. For those a little more romantic sounding, you might try English writer and poet, Christina Rossetti, “Love shall be our token; love be yours and love be mine.”

For you poets at heart, you might go with something from William Shakespeare, “Doubt thou the stars are fire, Doubt that the sun doth move. Doubt Truth to be a liar, but never doubt I love.” This goes really well when quoting a verse from King James. If you are not really into Valentine’s Day you might try something a shade darker from Orson Welles, “We’re born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we’re not alone.”

This Friday marks the second most popular holiday for sending cards, Valentine’s Day. Over 150 million cards will be exchanged during Valentine’s Day and that is just in the United States. J.C. Hall founder of Hallmark began selling Valentine’s Day postcards in 1910, adding greeting cards to their inventory in 1913. Hallmark may have profited from the day but they are not the creators of Valentine’s Day.

Valentine’s Day was named for a martyred St. Valentine with its roots going back to the third century. History records a couple of priests who were both named Valentine but both had a love element to their tragic stories. One of the priests defied Emperor Claudius II who had decreed that soldiers made better fighting men if single but Valentine continued to secretly perform their marriages.

The romantic side of Valentine’s Day is a rather recent event, dating back to the 14^th century thanks to Geoffrey Chaucer and William Shakespeare. Then along came Richard Cadbury in the 19^th century with heart-shaped boxes of chocolate and the Hallmark line of greeting cards in the 20^th century. Valentine’s Day is our one day out of 365 marked exclusively to focus on love!

Valentine’s Day may be a nice way to express how one feels with gifts of cards, flowers, chocolate, and jewelry. However, long before Hallmark printed their first card, Cadbury molded his first heart-shaped chocolate and Chaucer penned his sonnet, God showed us true love. He took us into the depths of love and showed us the enduring and unbreakable nature of what is true love. He gave us love when we didn’t deserve it yet willingly died for us. (Rom 5:8). He showed us a love that sacrificed His only Son. (John 3:16). He showed us love that we should be called “children of God.” (I John 3:1)

The world’s standard for love often comes down to what makes me feel good about myself, or what I enjoy doing. Even when love is focused on someone else, it still comes down to what I can get out of it, how it makes me feel or how can it help me. It is not surprising that the me part gets pretty big in worldly love.

Dave Mercer asked his Old Testament professor when he was in seminary, “What is the one thing that I should walk away with when studying the Old Testament?” The professor’s answer was short and simple, “The unconditional love of God.”

The unconditional love of God is actually a good summary of all of Scripture. From day one of Genesis until the closing curtain of earth, God’s love has permeated all of life. It is a love that at times has been very costly for God. Adam and Eve set the script for disobedience, but God rewrote the script back to how He intended it to be, unconditional. The cost continued to mount until Jesus spoke those heaven-shattering words, “It is finished.”

The Puritan writer John Owen wrote, “The fountain of the grace and mercy of Christ is infinite…His love is eternal, free, and unchangeable. Whom he loves, he loves unto the end! His love is such as never had a beginning and shall never have an end. He is the Beloved of our souls, holy, harmless, and undefiled, full of grace and truth.”

Love in the English language can cover everything from I love Chick-fil-A to the words spoken at the bedside of your dying partner in life. Love can be used in terms of sacrifice, romance, and mushy sentiments but it fails to capture the power of what it can be. The word love can be used to motivate, encourage, express feelings, or manipulate.

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails…And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.” (I Corinthians 13:4-8a,13 NIV)

There are few definitions of love greater than what Paul wrote in his letter to the Corinth church. He gave us definitions for love which do not just sound nice on a sentimental greeting card but how love can make a difference in our lives every day. It is a love lived out that impacts the world around us. We can be grateful that God gave us a true definition of love, He gave himself! Now that is what I call a Valentine’s Day!

God is great!