Finding Your Way Out Of The Wilderness

Water will gush forth in the wilderness and streams in the desert. The burning sand will become a pool, the thirsty ground bubbling springs. In the haunts where jackals once lay, grass and reeds and papyrus will grow. Isaiah 35:6b-7 NIV

What do you do when you find yourself in the wilderness? Our first home in Africa was in Bophuthatswana. Sitting on the edge of the Kalahari Desert, it was known for its dry and harsh conditions, where brown became the new green. The winds blew dry, dusty air, often forcing us to put wet rags under the doors to try to keep out the dust. During the worst droughts, animals and livestock died from hunger.

Living so far from the familiar surroundings of home, I realized that living in the wilderness was not just a physical place but also an emotional and spiritual experience. It was on one of those mornings, feeling the weight of my wilderness, that I stepped outside our front door. It felt as if God wanted to remind me that even in the deepest wilderness, He would be there. I looked up and saw one of the most spectacular rainbows I have ever seen, as if God was writing His name across the sky. It was His signature, a guarantee of “I will always be here with you.”

Choosing to rejoice in God’s presence during our wilderness seasons may not come easily. However, without Him, survival becomes impossible. Your wilderness could become a place where you are overwhelmed with pain, anger, and loneliness without His presence. “You, God, are my God, earnestly I seek you; I thirst for you, my whole being longs for you, in a dry and parched land where there is no water.” Psalm 63:1 NIV

The 2026 Winter Olympics have captured the world’s attention through much of February, with 92 nations sending their top athletes to compete at the Milano Cortina 2026 games. The event has offered breathtaking moments of victory and crushing defeat. Norway has led the medal count but had to make space for the Brazilian alpine skiing gold medalist.  He won the first medal ever from a South American country and from any tropical nation. The medalists will rejoice, but several athletes will find themselves in their own wilderness.

U.S. Olympic skater Amber Glenn was a favorite for gold at this year’s Winter Olympics in the ladies’ singles competition. She lived up to expectations, skating beautifully with a flawlessly executed performance. “After hitting the highest-graded triple Axel of her career and a solid triple-triple jump combination, Glenn just needed one more jump to complete the most difficult elements in her short program.” She completed her third and final jump without a fall and, to the casual observer, delivered a perfect skate.

However, to the judges’ trained eyes, she made an unforgivable mistake that would cost her a medal. Glenn executed a flawless double loop, but the rules required a triple. She just needed one more revolution to qualify, but she failed. So close—why not just give her credit, knowing she could do it? The problem was that ISU Special Regulations and Technical Rules require a skater to perform a triple jump; if not, the element is officially considered “not according to requirements.”

Lindsey Vonn dreamed of making a comeback after five years away from the sport following a partial knee replacement. However, she crashed seconds after the start of her downhill run, suffering a badly broken left leg that required four surgeries. “My Olympic dream did not finish the way I dreamt it would. It wasn’t a storybook ending or a fairytale; it was just life. I dared to dream and had worked so hard to achieve it. In downhill ski racing, the difference between a strategic line and a catastrophic injury can be as small as five inches.” (Luke Phillips, AFP)

Ilia Malinin, nicknamed the “Quad God,” known for his quadruple axels, was expected to win medals. Going into the Olympics, he competed in four events with scores ranging from 209 to 238, but his final score was 156.33, which placed him eighth. Why? The normally flawless skater fell multiple times during his final routine. “Of course, it didn’t go the way I wanted it to.”…All I have to do is just learn from my mistakes…

How they emerge from their own wilderness depends greatly on where they focus. Some will wander; others will thrive. Passion to be the best will help some of them walk out of their place of struggle. David Jeremiah writes, “Passionate people hang in there when the going gets tough. They persist, they persevere, they never lose heart, and they never quit.”

What if we find a way to make peace in those wandering times? British Pastor Pete Greig writes, “God’s blessings may come to me not instead of this wilderness, not in spite of this wilderness, but actually within it. The very situation I am currently tempted to resent may become the theatre of God’s greatest grace in my life. And so, I must ask myself a difficult question (and I don’t ask it lightly). Is it possible that God has actually called me into this dry, difficult, or disappointing place?”

“For though the righteous fall seven times, they rise again, but the wicked stumble when calamity strikes. “ (Proverbs 24:16 NIV)

I have found that wandering in a wilderness is not a once-in-a-lifetime experience, as you may have also discovered, especially if you live long enough. You walk out of one wilderness experience only to find yourself, at some point in your life journey, wandering in a new one. However, I have learned that the only thing that will provide the courage, hope and faith to walk out of the wilderness is that God will be there to wander with you.

“What god is as great as our God? Your path led through the sea, your way through the mighty waters, though your footprints were not seen.” Psalm 77:13b,19)

God is great!

Come, Follow Me

But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, Matthew 6:33a

Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it. Matthew 7: 13-14

What do you consider important? Most people see the election of a nation’s leader as important. In the 2024 United States election, 154 million people, or 65.3%, of the population voted. (US Census Dept) Attending church is still highly valued in the US, with 65-100 million people attending services weekly. (Church Trac) Everyone has their own idea of what is important. One Sunday each year seems to define importance: Super Bowl Sunday.

Super Bowl Sunday is the biggest and most-watched sporting event in the United States. According to Nielsen, this past Super Bowl drew 124.9 million viewers in the U.S. alone. That is a lot of people. But that’s only part of the story.

Steve Randall with Investment News writes, “Super Bowl LX was not just a football game but a one-night financial ecosystem, touching broadcast television, labor contracts, municipal budgets, and a rapidly expanding betting economy.”

The average ticket price for the 2026 game ranged from $6,200 to $8,000, with top-tier seats costing over $30,000. If you got thirsty during the game, a simple bottle of water cost $8, and other drinks were significantly more expensive. The winning team’s players received a bonus of $178,000. However, the losing players got a consolation prize of $103,000.

Marketing involves capturing viewers’ attention and converting it into purchases, which is why advertisers target large audiences. During the Super Bowl, advertisers were willing to pay an average of $8-10 million for a 30-second ad.

Coinbase, a regulated cryptocurrency exchange, spent an estimated $14 million dollars for a 60-second spot featuring a color-changing, bouncing QR code. Apparently, it worked: it drove over 20 million people to the Coinbase site, causing the app to crash and adding nearly $1 billion to its market cap. Why would anyone think a bouncing QR code is important? Asher Bykov writes, “Humans have an innate desire to understand the world around them. As a result, if we don’t understand something, we spend countless hours searching for the truth. Coinbase’s QR code ad was genius because it tapped into this desire.”

The American Gaming Association projected $1.76 Billion in legal wagers nationwide. Houston’s Jim “Mattress Mack” McIngvale made headlines by placing a $2 million bet on the New England Patriots to win Super Bowl LX.

If importance were simply measured by impressive numbers and economic impact, the Super Bowl would claim that spot every year. However, that importance will be short-lived unless you are one of the advertisers writing the $6 million check or “Mattress Mack” covering his $2 million wager.  Most of you would know that the Seattle Seahawks defeated the New England Patriots in this 60th Super Bowl matchup, but if I asked 100 random people on the street who won last year’s Super Bowl, far fewer would remember. I had to Google to see who won, even though I watched the game last year. David Icke’s quote could be applied to the Super Bowl: “I love sport as long as it’s kept as an entertainment – not a meaning of life.”

If winning the Super Bowl is not the greatest thing in the world, what is? We might say our families, which are important. We might also mention being a good citizen, employee, employer, or neighbor—all of which are important. We could list a thousand and one things, and they would all be important.

Jesus was asked many questions about what mattered most, but all his answers pointed back to one thing: Himself. “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will find it. What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? Or what can anyone give in exchange for their soul?” (Matthew 16:24-26 NIV)

Jesus emphasized what mattered most when he called his disciples to the journey. His simple reply was, “Come, follow me.” The outward benefits of good doctrine, a way of life, gospel influence, and more would come, but first, they were only asked to “Follow me.”

We typically measure effectiveness and impact using external standards such as wealth, education, influence, and position to decide what matters. However, what we see and prioritize is rarely what God highlights. Jesus was approached by a wealthy, doctrinally sound, high-ranking man who held power, seeking guidance on how to gain eternal life. Jesus didn’t look at his impressive resume and say, “You have it all together.” Instead, he looked at him and said, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.” (Matthew 19:23-34)

Paul’s Damascus Road vision wasn’t about him becoming a great theologian and writing half the New Testament, but it was about who to follow. “Come, follow me.” Oswald Chambers writes, “Paul was not given a message or a doctrine to proclaim; he was brought into a vivid, personal, overmastering relationship to Jesus Christ…Paul was devoted to a Person not to a cause. He was absolutely Jesus Christ’s, he saw nothing else, he lived for nothing else.”

Jesus’ invitation to follow Him was never extended to those who had everything together. His invitation wasn’t for people who never made mistakes. It was never meant for men and women who immediately understood the full meaning of everything He said. Jesus’ invitation remains the same for us misfits, slow learners, and ego-centered folks today. “Come, follow me.”

God is great!

Hope When It Doesn’t Look Like Hope

But I pray to you, LORD, in the time of your favor; in your great love, O God, answer me with your sure salvation. Rescue me from the mire, do not let me sink; deliver me from those who hate me, from the deep waters. Do not let the floodwaters engulf me or the depths swallow me up or the pit close its mouth over me. Psalm 69:13-15 NIV

When hope doesn’t look like hope, what do you do? Hope might mean a 2.5-mile swim in shark-infested waters. Last Friday, that was what it looked like for 13-year-old Austin Appelbee when he, his mom, brother, and sister were having a last-minute swim off the shore near Quindalup, Australia, before heading home. Unexpected strong winds came up, sweeping them out into the ocean, farther from shore. Austin and his mother decided he should try to swim back to shore to get help for his family.

Austin reached the shore at sunset and called for help. After a large rescue effort, Austin’s family was located about 14 kilometers offshore. In an interview with the BBC, Austin reflected on the experience, saying, “that prayer, Christian songs, and thoughts of his family kept him going. I don’t think it was me who did it—it was God the whole time. I kept praying and praying, and I said to God, ‘I’ll get baptized, I’ll get baptized.”

Cerith Gardiner, writing about the incident, said, “Courage often looks like persistence, faith often sounds like a song half-remembered, and God’s presence is sometimes felt most clearly in the simple resolve to keep swimming—one stroke, one prayer, one hopeful thought at a time.”

Hope might mean standing before millions to show what God can do. Jelly Roll, a former convicted felon, was not the same man on stage Sunday night as he stood on the biggest stage in the music world to accept a Grammy Award. He credited Jesus Christ, who is “for everybody.” Jelly Roll walked onto the stage with a Bible in hand to accept the award for best contemporary country album, Beautifully Broken.

“First of all, Jesus, I hear you and I am listening, Lord! Second of all, I want to thank my beautiful wife. I would have never changed my life without you. I’d have ended up dead or in jail. I’d have killed myself if it wasn’t for you and Jesus. I thank you for that.”  Jelly Roll went on to say, “There was a time in my life when I was broken. That’s why I wrote this album. I didn’t think I had a chance, y‘all. There was days I thought the darkest things. I was a horrible human. … I believe that music had the power to change my life and God had the power to change my life.”  (Today.com)

He ended his speech by saying, “I want to tell y’all right now: Jesus is for everybody. Jesus is not owned by one political party. Jesus is not owned by no musical label. Jesus is Jesus and anybody can have a relationship with him. I love you, Lord.”

“This is what the Gospel does. God does not look for perfect people—He redeems broken ones. He meets people in jail cells, addiction, shame, failure, and despair, and He rewrites their stories. Jelly Roll’s life is living proof that your past does not disqualify you from God’s purpose. In fact, it often becomes the very platform God uses to display His power.” Craig Johnson

Hope might look like Jesus walking on water to rescue us. Storms will come up, and we realize life doesn’t always turn out the way we thought it would. We may find ourselves knee deep in sickness, job loss, marriage struggles, wayward children, or even the death of loved ones. Yet hope lives as we see Jesus walking towards us, hands held out. When the disciples saw Jesus walking towards them on the water, they were terrified. Jesus told them, “Take courage! It is I. Don’t be afraid.”  (Matthew 14:27)

Hope might look as if it will never come. Matthew records a powerful and moving narrative of a concerned mother for her daughter’s healing and Jesus. “Lord, Son of David, have mercy on me! My daughter is demon-possessed and suffering terribly.” (15:22b) Jesus looked at her and told her not today, but she kept on asking. Please Jesus. I need your help. “Then Jesus said to her, “Woman, you have great faith! Your request is granted.” And her daughter was healed at that moment.” (15:28)

“When God gives a vision and darkness follows, wait. God will make you in accordance with the vision He has given if you will wait His time. Never try and help God fulfill His word.” (Oswald Chambers)

Learning to wait is challenging. We live in a time when action is often valued more than patience. It’s probably less true than we think that God can only guide a moving object. We’ve often been told that God needs you to take the first step, and then He will guide your steps. Still, we must realize that waiting is not passive; it involves active trust. Allowing God to speak requires silence, which is a difficult discipline for many of us. In the waiting, we find hope and, much like the Canaanite woman, healing.

Hope may look different in every situation, but the one constant is Jesus, the ultimate hope. “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 15:13 NIV)

God is great!

Melody of Joy and Hope

The whole earth is filled with awe at your wonders; where morning dawns, where evening fades, you call forth songs of Joy. Psalm 65:8 NIV

When we moved to Georgia, it had many advantages, but one thing it lacked was the steady winds of Oklahoma. You can rely on Oklahoma winds to have enough force to produce a beautiful sound as they blow through the wind chimes, although sometimes the wind is a little too strong, knocking the wind chimes off their hooks. Granted, winter keeps you indoors, but even these cold days can’t stop the winds from creating a melody of joy and hope.

There is a legend about a German baron who wanted to build a gigantic wind harp at his castle to play continuous music. He had wires strung from tower to tower to catch the wind blowing across them. Unfortunately, the gentle breezes that swirled through the castle did not have enough force to make any noise. He was disappointed until one night when a fierce storm arose, sending strong winds against the castle. Awakened by the powerful winds beating against the castle walls, he was surprised to hear the most beautiful melody, even above the roar of the storm. “It had taken a fierce storm to produce the music!” (paraphrase from Streams in the Desert)

Upheaval seems to be the main story on the nightly news. Like the 90s movie, Groundhog Day, where the weather anchor keeps reliving the same day over and over, it feels like we are living the same stories repeatedly. These stories might focus on recent snow and ice storms, violence in Minnesota or Iran, or who knows what.

It is almost impossible to hear anything other than the noise of the day. Too often, we are like The Baron, who wanted to sit in his easy chair and listen to the sounds of his wind harp. But the gentle winds did not produce music until a fierce storm arose that could move the strings. It is in storms that we can truly hear and appreciate what emerges from the chaos.

Jesus knew that the upheaval of this world could feel overwhelming, but he wasn’t surprised. Jesus reminded us to turn to the Father and to remember that God will always be in control, even when it looks darkest. “Watch out that no one deceives you. Many will come in my name, claiming, ‘I am he,’ and will deceive many. When you hear of wars and rumors of wars, do not be alarmed. Such things must happen, but the end is still to come. Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be earthquakes in various places, and famines. These are the beginning of birth pains. You must be on your guard.” (Mark 13:5-9a)

C.S. Lewis, in his book The Screwtape Letters, writes that Satan’s “cause is never in more danger than when a human, no longer desiring, but still intending, to do God’s will, looks round upon a universe from which every trace of him seems to have vanished, and asks why he has been forsaken, and still obeys.”

What should we do during this waiting period? God said to pray, not only for ourselves but also for the nation. “Seek the peace and prosperity of the city to which I have carried you into exile. Pray to the LORD for it, because if it prospers, you too will prosper.” (Jeremiah 29:7) Israel was captive in the hostile land of Babylon, with nowhere to go, their homeland completely destroyed, and hope all but lost—which is where God steps in. God reminds them that even in their darkest days, “I know the plans I have for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future,” (29:11)

David encouraged the people in Psalm 122 to “pray for the peace of Jerusalem.” “I rejoiced with those who said to me, Let us go to the house of the LORD. Our feet are standing in your gates, Jerusalem.”

Praying scripture is a powerful way to align our needs, desires, and burdens with God. When we’re overwhelmed by problems, frustrated with our nation’s leadership—whether elected or not—or simply heartbroken over a particular incident, the best and only place to pray is from God’s perspective.

Psalm 122 is one of many scriptural passages that express the words we so desperately need to say. Words that have been prayers for generations, asking God to intervene on behalf of their city, state, province, or nation. This powerful prayer enables us to watch the evening news without feeling anxious or fearful. It provides a way to pray for peace in Washington, Minneapolis, Nairobi, Johannesburg, London, or wherever you lay your head tonight. We can watch the broadcasts, read the stories, scroll through the internet, or listen to friends’ pain, but now with hope and promise.

“Pray for the peace of (you voice the location); May those who love you be secure. May there be peace within your walls and security within your citadels. For the sake of my family and friends, I will say, Peace be within you. For the sake of the house of the LORD our God, I will seek your prosperity,” (122:6-9)

We can carefully position our wind chimes in just the right spot to catch the wind, but there is silence until the wind blows through them. “Let all your thoughts be with the Most High and direct your humble prayers unceasingly to Christ.” (Thomas a Kempis). Can you only imagine what a beautiful sound in heaven as our prayers echo through the streets of Heaven? Can you only imagine the chorus of millions praying for the peace of their city?

God is great!