Can You Quantify Love?

But his mother treasured all these things in her heart. And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man. Luke 2:51b-52 (NIV)

Can you quantify love? Ed Keefer and his co-creator, John Hawley thought so in 1937 when they developed the “Cupidoscope”. Keefer was a senior in the School of Engineering at the University of Toledo. The device promised to reveal with scientific precision the level of love between a couple. Keefer and Hawley built the device in the school’s physics laboratory using an old radio cabinet, a motor spark coil, and an electrical resistor. The couple held onto separate handles and as each person moved their handle toward each other, the level of electric shock registered. The higher the woman’s tolerance of the electric shock determined the couple’s love for each other. It sounds like a good campus party game, but the experiment caught the attention of scientists in the United States and Europe in their quest to quantify love.

I’m not sure how effective the “Cupidoscope” was in quantifying love but yesterday gave us a much better tool for quantifying love as we celebrated Mother’s Day. Anna Jarvis recognized the impact of mothers when the holiday was first celebrated in 1907 during a worship service.  Jarvis believed a mother is “the person who has done more for you than anyone in the world.” The day has been officially celebrated in the United States since 1914 when Pres. Woodrow Wilson signed a proclamation designating the second Sunday in May as a national holiday to honor mothers. Other nations around the world also have an equivalent day to honor mothers.

Mama Bear! You have probably seen the words on t-shirts, mugs, hats, and a dozen other things. What is a mama bear? The Urban Dictionary defines Mama Bear as: “A mom who can be cuddly and lovable but also has a ferocious side when it’s necessary to protect her cubs.” Stuffed bears are cute and cuddly but If you encounter a living brown bear in the wilderness, my best advice is to get out of there as quickly as possible because you know you are not going to have a good day! The same can be said about getting between a mother and her child, you are not going to have a good day!

Steven Spainbouer was one of the first responders at the recent mass shooting in Allen, Texas. Spainbouer recounted the scene in a TV interview. He told how he found a child covered by his mother, who had died in the attack. “When I rolled the mother over, he came out, and I asked him, ‘Are you okay?” This mother was a Mama Bear who gave up her life to protect her child.

Scripture captured the story of Jochebed who would have worn a “Mama Bear” t-shirt proudly. She was willing to die rather than kill her baby as the government ordered. Jochebed was a Mama Bear that was determined to keep her son, Moses alive. (Exodus 2)

Barna and MOPS International recently partnered to create the “State of Motherhood” project. The full report will be released this fall but they gave a sneak peek of their findings. The bottom line: Mothers are the primary influencers on the faith of their children. Savannah Kimberlin at the Barna Group wrote, “Mothers are evangelists, forming the faith of the next generation. Mothers truly are uniquely placed to create a difference and to raise up the leaders of tomorrow and the Christians of tomorrow. Mothers are disciplemakers, showing the next generation how to grow.”

I have heard hundreds of messages on faith but it was my Mother modeling faith that brought it to life.

I have heard sermons on caring for each other but I watched my Mother model thousands of sermons in cakes and casseroles she took to the sick, the hurting, and the needy.

I have heard preachers talk about hospitality but I watched my Mother add another plate to the table hundreds of times for unexpected visitors. I learned to “not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it.” (Hebrews 13:2)

God knew He needed a Mama Bear to take on the role of Jesus’ Mother. She would have to have a heart of faith, be obedient even when it wouldn’t be easy, be strong in the face of ridicule, consistent in her daily walk with God, and one who could sing, “My soul glorifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior.”

Through the years Mary treasured and pondered many things in her heart. It was out of this treasuring she was able to ask Jesus to help the wedding host who had a problem and then boldly tell the servers to “Do whatever he tells you.” (John 2) The Gospels don’t give us a lot of details about Mary’s day-to-day life but what they do write tells us she was a woman of faith who lived her life for God. The things she treasured in her heart would sustain her that dark afternoon as she watched her son being crucified on the cross.

Luke simply says that “Jesus grew in wisdom and stature.” Luke doesn’t elaborate on how he grew in wisdom and stature so I can only speculate that he was at the synagogue listening, learning, and asking questions. I can also only speculate, but I am sure he was reading scripture and praying daily. I can also only speculate but I wonder if he watched and listened to Mary as she modeled a faith-filled life daily.

Mary may have had a unique calling to be the mother of Jesus but she had the same unique role all mothers have had through the generations to encourage, nurture and prepare their children for tomorrow.  Mary modeled well for Jesus even when it was difficult. The same can be said of countless “disciplemakers” preparing the next generation.  One day may be set aside as Mother’s Day but the other 364 days impact forever. “She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.” (Prov 31:26 NIV)

God is great!