Finding Your Way Out Of The Wilderness

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Water will gush forth in the wilderness and streams in the desert. The burning sand will become a pool, the thirsty ground bubbling springs. In the haunts where jackals once lay, grass and reeds and papyrus will grow. Isaiah 35:6b-7 NIV

What do you do when you find yourself in the wilderness? Our first home in Africa was in Bophuthatswana. Sitting on the edge of the Kalahari Desert, it was known for its dry and harsh conditions, where brown became the new green. The winds blew dry, dusty air, often forcing us to put wet rags under the doors to try to keep out the dust. During the worst droughts, animals and livestock died from hunger.

Living so far from the familiar surroundings of home, I realized that living in the wilderness was not just a physical place but also an emotional and spiritual experience. It was on one of those mornings, feeling the weight of my wilderness, that I stepped outside our front door. It felt as if God wanted to remind me that even in the deepest wilderness, He would be there. I looked up and saw one of the most spectacular rainbows I have ever seen, as if God was writing His name across the sky. It was His signature, a guarantee of “I will always be here with you.”

Choosing to rejoice in God’s presence during our wilderness seasons may not come easily. However, without Him, survival becomes impossible. Your wilderness could become a place where you are overwhelmed with pain, anger, and loneliness without His presence. “You, God, are my God, earnestly I seek you; I thirst for you, my whole being longs for you, in a dry and parched land where there is no water.” Psalm 63:1 NIV

The 2026 Winter Olympics have captured the world’s attention through much of February, with 92 nations sending their top athletes to compete at the Milano Cortina 2026 games. The event has offered breathtaking moments of victory and crushing defeat. Norway has led the medal count but had to make space for the Brazilian alpine skiing gold medalist.  He won the first medal ever from a South American country and from any tropical nation. The medalists will rejoice, but several athletes will find themselves in their own wilderness.

U.S. Olympic skater Amber Glenn was a favorite for gold at this year’s Winter Olympics in the ladies’ singles competition. She lived up to expectations, skating beautifully with a flawlessly executed performance. “After hitting the highest-graded triple Axel of her career and a solid triple-triple jump combination, Glenn just needed one more jump to complete the most difficult elements in her short program.” She completed her third and final jump without a fall and, to the casual observer, delivered a perfect skate.

However, to the judges’ trained eyes, she made an unforgivable mistake that would cost her a medal. Glenn executed a flawless double loop, but the rules required a triple. She just needed one more revolution to qualify, but she failed. So close—why not just give her credit, knowing she could do it? The problem was that ISU Special Regulations and Technical Rules require a skater to perform a triple jump; if not, the element is officially considered “not according to requirements.”

Lindsey Vonn dreamed of making a comeback after five years away from the sport following a partial knee replacement. However, she crashed seconds after the start of her downhill run, suffering a badly broken left leg that required four surgeries. “My Olympic dream did not finish the way I dreamt it would. It wasn’t a storybook ending or a fairytale; it was just life. I dared to dream and had worked so hard to achieve it. In downhill ski racing, the difference between a strategic line and a catastrophic injury can be as small as five inches.” (Luke Phillips, AFP)

Ilia Malinin, nicknamed the “Quad God,” known for his quadruple axels, was expected to win medals. Going into the Olympics, he competed in four events with scores ranging from 209 to 238, but his final score was 156.33, which placed him eighth. Why? The normally flawless skater fell multiple times during his final routine. “Of course, it didn’t go the way I wanted it to.”…All I have to do is just learn from my mistakes…

How they emerge from their own wilderness depends greatly on where they focus. Some will wander; others will thrive. Passion to be the best will help some of them walk out of their place of struggle. David Jeremiah writes, “Passionate people hang in there when the going gets tough. They persist, they persevere, they never lose heart, and they never quit.”

What if we find a way to make peace in those wandering times? British Pastor Pete Greig writes, “God’s blessings may come to me not instead of this wilderness, not in spite of this wilderness, but actually within it. The very situation I am currently tempted to resent may become the theatre of God’s greatest grace in my life. And so, I must ask myself a difficult question (and I don’t ask it lightly). Is it possible that God has actually called me into this dry, difficult, or disappointing place?”

“For though the righteous fall seven times, they rise again, but the wicked stumble when calamity strikes. “ (Proverbs 24:16 NIV)

I have found that wandering in a wilderness is not a once-in-a-lifetime experience, as you may have also discovered, especially if you live long enough. You walk out of one wilderness experience only to find yourself, at some point in your life journey, wandering in a new one. However, I have learned that the only thing that will provide the courage, hope and faith to walk out of the wilderness is that God will be there to wander with you.

“What god is as great as our God? Your path led through the sea, your way through the mighty waters, though your footprints were not seen.” Psalm 77:13b,19)

God is great!

Come, Follow Me

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But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, Matthew 6:33a

Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it. Matthew 7: 13-14

What do you consider important? Most people see the election of a nation’s leader as important. In the 2024 United States election, 154 million people, or 65.3%, of the population voted. (US Census Dept) Attending church is still highly valued in the US, with 65-100 million people attending services weekly. (Church Trac) Everyone has their own idea of what is important. One Sunday each year seems to define importance: Super Bowl Sunday.

Super Bowl Sunday is the biggest and most-watched sporting event in the United States. According to Nielsen, this past Super Bowl drew 124.9 million viewers in the U.S. alone. That is a lot of people. But that’s only part of the story.

Steve Randall with Investment News writes, “Super Bowl LX was not just a football game but a one-night financial ecosystem, touching broadcast television, labor contracts, municipal budgets, and a rapidly expanding betting economy.”

The average ticket price for the 2026 game ranged from $6,200 to $8,000, with top-tier seats costing over $30,000. If you got thirsty during the game, a simple bottle of water cost $8, and other drinks were significantly more expensive. The winning team’s players received a bonus of $178,000. However, the losing players got a consolation prize of $103,000.

Marketing involves capturing viewers’ attention and converting it into purchases, which is why advertisers target large audiences. During the Super Bowl, advertisers were willing to pay an average of $8-10 million for a 30-second ad.

Coinbase, a regulated cryptocurrency exchange, spent an estimated $14 million dollars for a 60-second spot featuring a color-changing, bouncing QR code. Apparently, it worked: it drove over 20 million people to the Coinbase site, causing the app to crash and adding nearly $1 billion to its market cap. Why would anyone think a bouncing QR code is important? Asher Bykov writes, “Humans have an innate desire to understand the world around them. As a result, if we don’t understand something, we spend countless hours searching for the truth. Coinbase’s QR code ad was genius because it tapped into this desire.”

The American Gaming Association projected $1.76 Billion in legal wagers nationwide. Houston’s Jim “Mattress Mack” McIngvale made headlines by placing a $2 million bet on the New England Patriots to win Super Bowl LX.

If importance were simply measured by impressive numbers and economic impact, the Super Bowl would claim that spot every year. However, that importance will be short-lived unless you are one of the advertisers writing the $6 million check or “Mattress Mack” covering his $2 million wager.  Most of you would know that the Seattle Seahawks defeated the New England Patriots in this 60th Super Bowl matchup, but if I asked 100 random people on the street who won last year’s Super Bowl, far fewer would remember. I had to Google to see who won, even though I watched the game last year. David Icke’s quote could be applied to the Super Bowl: “I love sport as long as it’s kept as an entertainment – not a meaning of life.”

If winning the Super Bowl is not the greatest thing in the world, what is? We might say our families, which are important. We might also mention being a good citizen, employee, employer, or neighbor—all of which are important. We could list a thousand and one things, and they would all be important.

Jesus was asked many questions about what mattered most, but all his answers pointed back to one thing: Himself. “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will find it. What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? Or what can anyone give in exchange for their soul?” (Matthew 16:24-26 NIV)

Jesus emphasized what mattered most when he called his disciples to the journey. His simple reply was, “Come, follow me.” The outward benefits of good doctrine, a way of life, gospel influence, and more would come, but first, they were only asked to “Follow me.”

We typically measure effectiveness and impact using external standards such as wealth, education, influence, and position to decide what matters. However, what we see and prioritize is rarely what God highlights. Jesus was approached by a wealthy, doctrinally sound, high-ranking man who held power, seeking guidance on how to gain eternal life. Jesus didn’t look at his impressive resume and say, “You have it all together.” Instead, he looked at him and said, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.” (Matthew 19:23-34)

Paul’s Damascus Road vision wasn’t about him becoming a great theologian and writing half the New Testament, but it was about who to follow. “Come, follow me.” Oswald Chambers writes, “Paul was not given a message or a doctrine to proclaim; he was brought into a vivid, personal, overmastering relationship to Jesus Christ…Paul was devoted to a Person not to a cause. He was absolutely Jesus Christ’s, he saw nothing else, he lived for nothing else.”

Jesus’ invitation to follow Him was never extended to those who had everything together. His invitation wasn’t for people who never made mistakes. It was never meant for men and women who immediately understood the full meaning of everything He said. Jesus’ invitation remains the same for us misfits, slow learners, and ego-centered folks today. “Come, follow me.”

God is great!

When Others Dismiss You, What Do You Do?

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Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ. Galatians 1:10 NIV

“This hobbit was a very well-to-do hobbit, and his name was Baggins. The Bagginses had lived in the neighbourhood of The Hill for time out of mind, and people considered them very respectable, not only because most of them were rich, but also because they never had any adventures or did anything unexpected: you could tell what a Baggins would say on any question without the bother of asking him. This is a story of how a Baggins had an adventure and found himself doing and saying things altogether unexpected. He may have lost the neighbours’ respect, but he gained—well, you will see whether he gained anything in the end.” (from The Hobbit, J.R.R. Tolkien)

J.R.R. Tolkien opened our imaginations to adventure. One thing we learned about Bilbo Baggins was that as long as he lived according to Hobbit expectations, all was fine. However, when he went on his great adventure with Gandalf, everything changed.

 Tolkien experienced a similar kind of rejection after he was nominated by his good friend C.S. Lewis for the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1961. Lewis believed his friend showed a unique, imaginative scope and depth in storytelling that deserved acknowledgment. Unfortunately, the Nobel Prize committee didn’t agree and rejected the nomination, stating that “Tolkien’s storytelling lacked the literary quality required for the prize.” Tolkien may not have matched others’ expectations, but he kept doing what he did best: writing. He became known as the “father” of modern fantasy literature and is considered one of the most influential authors of all time.

When others dismiss you, what do you do? You look for God’s view. When Samuel the prophet was given the task of anointing the next king of Israel after Saul failed, he first looked at the outward appearance of the sons of Jesse. “Surely the LORD’s anointed stands here before the LORD.”  Wrong! God told Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.” (I Samuel 16:7)

Fernando Mendoza faced 130 rejections before finally being signed by Cal University as a third-string quarterback. When a transfer was brought in to compete for his position, he entered the transfer portal and moved to Indiana University, the losingest program in college football history. That all changed Monday night when Mendoza led Indiana University to its first national championship and undefeated season.

When others dismiss you, what do you do? You find God’s confidence to stand firm. The Psalmist understood that only in God do we have the confidence to withstand the rejections of others. “When hard pressed, I cried to the LORD; he brought me into a spacious place. The LORD is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me? The LORD is with me; he is my helper. I look in triumph on my enemies.” (Psalm 118: 5-7 NIV)

“Never mind if you think you are unable to take another step, for either he will strengthen you to make you able, or he will call a sudden halt, and you will not have to take it at all.” (Frances Ridley Havergal)

When others dismiss you, what do you do? Keep your focus on God. Our darkest hours are often just moments away from when God will do His greatest work. The Book of Genesis offers a glimpse of God’s work in Joseph’s life. Joseph’s journey—from the favorite son to the despised brother, then sold into slavery, falsely accused, imprisoned, interpreter of dreams, and eventually becoming a prime minister—culminates with him as the rescuer of a nation. At any point, Joseph could have made his life easier by choosing a different path. Yet he chose to stay focused on God and was able to end his story by saying, “You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives” Gen 50:20.

“All the good that you will do will come not from you but from the fact that you have allowed yourself to be used by God’s love. Think of this more, and gradually you will be free from the need to prove yourself, and you can be more open to the power that will work through you without your knowing it.” Thomas Merton

When others dismiss you, what do you do? Make sure your identity is firmly rooted in Jesus Christ. Paul was a no-exception rule-keeping religionist until the day he finally encountered living grace. From that day on, there was no mistaking that Paul’s identity was rooted in Jesus. “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” (Galatians 2:20)

The answer to everything we need, every answer we seek, every problem we must overcome is from our identity rooted in Jesus. “God is not a retailer dispensing grace to us in doses. God is not measuring out some patience to the impatient, some love to the unloving, some meekness to the proud in quantities that we take and work on as a kind of capital. God has given only one gift to meet all our need—His Son, Christ Jesus. As I look to Him to live out His life in me, He will be humble and patient and loving and everything else I need—in my stead… (Watchman Nee)

Father, because I am in Christ Jesus, I have everything I need regardless of what others may think or say. I place my trust in you to work out your plans in my life. I take my hands off, letting you have full control. “I will run after you with delight in my heart.” My soul delights in you.

God is great!

Leftover Resolutions

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Help me turn my eyes away from illusions so that I pursue only that which is true; drench my soul with life as I walk in your paths. Psalm 119:37 TPT

How’s your New Year’s resolution holding up? If you made a resolution, then you are in good company. Pew Research estimates that three in ten adults made a 2026 resolution, and Stagwell, a digital marketing company, increases that number to 42%. The most common resolutions are to exercise more, be happier, eat healthier, improve physical health, and save money. All noble resolutions!

However, you are also in good company if you have already broken your resolution. The University of Scranton estimates that only 8-9% actually keep their resolutions. There is an unofficial holiday, Quitter’s Day, observed on the 2nd Friday of January, when people give up on their resolutions. This year, Quitter’s Day was on January 9.

Resolutions can be helpful if they draw our attention to something in our lives. The problem is that resolutions, for the sake of resolutions, often fail. We all intend to keep our resolutions, so why do we often fail? The reasons are probably just as diverse as the resolutions: lack of time, busy schedules, conflicting interests, too complicated, or simply one more task to do. Whatever the reason, we tend to move on to something else.

I didn’t observe Quitter’s Day this year because I didn’t make any resolutions. However, I did decide on my defining word for the year. Last year’s word was space—not outer space, but inner space. My desire was to create space within my soul for God, and from it flowed what truly mattered.

This year, I chose the word “Sacred.” I realize that everything I do should be sacred, which for me means honoring God in how I use my time, energy, money, writing, social media, and life itself. The key verse for me is found in Colossians 3:17, “And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” (NIV)

Life is often described as a contrast between the sacred and the secular, creating a divide between God and our world. Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines sacred as “set apart for the service or worship of deity,” and secular as “not sacred or ecclesiastical.”

This past week, one of my favorite writers admitted to an eight-year affair involving infidelity. His work helped a generation understand and live a grace-filled life. I felt disappointment, frustration, and a bit of shock. At first, I thought it was just an AI-generated hoax. Lisa Whittle of Relevant Magazine said it well, “We can be sad and mad at this, but it shouldn’t cause us to lose faith in God. God had nothing to do with this. People can be a Christian and sin. People can be a spiritual leader and sin. Secret sin kills everyone around us. It’s time to take it seriously.”

This writer may have had good intentions to be faithful and made all the resolutions to stay true, but somewhere along the way, he failed to keep his first commitment to honor God. My heart grieves for another voice lost because of his failure to stay true to God’s way, but even more for his wife, family, the church, and those outside the community of faith who only see another Jesus follower fail.

I don’t think Jesus was overly concerned with making resolutions, but he was concerned with how we live and where our focus should be. When asked what the greatest commandment is, Jesus answered, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” (Matthew 22:37) That keeps everything in focus!

This week’s failure was not the first, nor, unfortunately, will it be the last. Nonetheless, what is certain is that God’s grace, love, and faithfulness continue. I offer this prayer, worded by Sarah Yardley, to encourage us:

“Christ, have mercy. Keep me holy. Keep me humble.

Expose my unrepentant sin. Convict me of thoughts, desires, behaviors that could shatter my soul and destroy my credibility.

Give me friends who speak to me boldly, clearly, calling me to a deeper holiness. Make me this kind of friend to others. Thank you for the companions who have walked with me all my life with honest, holy love. Let me hate patterns of sin and deeply love people in my life. Christ came for sinners, and I am one.

Break my heart for the layers and depths of the hell we choose when we betray hearts, bodies, lives. I grieve the heartache, despondency, disillusionment, pain. Christ, who entered that hell and took captivity captive, have mercy. Enter into the places that feel like hell today. Lead captives into freedom.

Let the name on my lips be Jesus; the only true hero, the one who is always faithful. Spirit of God, make me more like Jesus. Do not let me delight in sin or deride it casually. Give me holy grief and deep compassion.

Jesus, Keep me holy, Keep me humble, Keep my heart close to you.

God is great!

Christmas Is Just The Beginning

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After Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea, during the time of King Herod, Magi from the east came to Jerusalem and asked, “Where is the one who has been born king of the Jews? We saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him.” Matthew 2:1-2 NIV

Did you get what you really wanted for Christmas? Hopefully, you did better than Diane, who excitedly ripped open the box from her sister. Inside, she found a colorful hat, soft and fuzzy; she loved it. However, after several attempts to get the right angle, it just didn’t look right. So, she called her sister. “I got the hat you sent me,” Diane said, “but it doesn’t fit.” Her sister replied, “A hat?” “I sent you a toilet seat cover!” (Life in these United States, Reader’s Digest)

Yes, Christmas is over, or at least that’s how we see it. The gifts have been unwrapped, the parties are finished, and we attended the special services at church. Now, our thoughts turn to the coming year. In a few days, most people will start packing away decorations and deep cleaning the house. The lines at Walmart, Target, and UPS will be long and slow as people return the wrong-size shirts, duplicate gifts, or even toilet seat covers.

However, in reality, Christmas is just the beginning. Both Christmas and Easter serve as essential dates on the calendar that remind us of the impact God has had, had, or will have on the world. Jesus never intended to be confined to two days on a human calendar but to be alive and transformative every day of our lives. Howard Thurman expressed this beautifully in his poem “The Mood of Christmas.”

“When the song of the angels is stilled,

When the star in the sky is gone,

When the kings and princes are home,

When the Shepherds are back with their flock,

                  The work of Christmas begins:

                  To find the lost,

                  To heal the broken,

                  To feed the hungry,

                  To release the prisoner,

                  To rebuild the nations,

                  To bring peace among people

                  To make music in the heart.”                (The Mood of Christmas by Howard Thurman)

Matthew added a twist to Luke’s account of Jesus’ birth. He introduced us to a small group of scholars from the East, who set out on a mission to find the true king who was meant to change the world. These “foreigners,” Gentiles, intellectuals, and advisors to kings—yet outside the Jewish faith—searched for the real meaning of Christmas. Others might have looked up at the night sky and seen the star, but did nothing to seek the truth.

Religious leaders knew the location from years of careful study of Scripture. When asked about where the Messiah was to be born, they knew precisely by quoting the prophets. They wanted a Messiah, on their own terms. What a difference if they had decided to join this band of seekers and follow the star. No doubt they gave good directions; unfortunately, they didn’t follow their own instructions to Bethlehem to find the Messiah.

This band of seekers wanted more than directions and more knowledge concerning the birthplace of the king of the Jews. They hadn’t traveled for weeks simply to talk with an earthly political leader; they sought the real king. This band of wise men didn’t need more information; their journey towards Christmas wouldn’t be complete until they saw the King of kings.

“After they had heard the king, they went on their way, and the star they had seen when it rose went ahead of them until it stopped over the place where the child was. When they saw the star, they were overjoyed. On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasures and presented him with gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh.” Matthew 2:9-11 NIV

These outsiders, seekers, scholars are a great example of those who understood the real meaning of Christmas. They willingly gave up comfort, prestige, and wealth to seek out the “one who has been born king of the Jews, the Messiah, the One who could bring real meaning to life.

“Not often, but every once in a while, God brings us to a major turning point—a great crossroads in our life. From that point we either go toward a more and more slow, lazy, and useless Christian life, or we become more and more on fire, giving our utmost for His highest—our best for His glory.” (Oswald Chambers)

What will you do with Christmas as we celebrate the arrival of 2026? Was it just another day that gets crossed off the calendar until next year? We can make our plans for 2026, and we should, but remember that they are subject to change often due to circumstances beyond our control. The one thing that remains certain is that God will be with us throughout 2026. “For to us a child is born…And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.” (Isaiah 9:6) There will be times in the coming year when these names and titles of Jesus will be our place of refuge and strength to face our challenges.

I pray that the hope, joy, and promise of Christmas continue throughout this year. Thank you for subscribing to and reading Prayer Safari each week.  I hope it offers a quick word of encouragement as we journey together on Safari. My desire is to honor God with each post.

Happy New Year!

God is great!

 

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Christmas Is Just the Beginning

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After Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea, during the time of King Herod, Magi from the east came to Jerusalem and asked, “Where is the one who has been born king of the Jews? We saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him.” Matthew 2:1-2 NIV

Did you get what you really wanted for Christmas? Hopefully, you did better than Diane, who excitedly ripped open the box from her sister. Inside, she found a colorful hat, soft and fuzzy; she loved it. However, after several attempts to get the right angle, it just didn’t look right. So, she called her sister. “I got the hat you sent me,” Diane said, “but it doesn’t fit.” Her sister replied, “A hat?” “I sent you a toilet seat cover!” (Life in these United States, Reader’s Digest)

Yes, Christmas is over, or at least that’s how we see it. The gifts have been unwrapped, the parties are finished, and we attended the special services at church. Now, our thoughts turn to the coming year. In a few days, most people will start packing away decorations and deep cleaning the house. The lines at Walmart, Target, and UPS will be long and slow as people return the wrong-size shirts, duplicate gifts, or even toilet seat covers.

However, in reality, Christmas is just the beginning. Both Christmas and Easter serve as essential dates on the calendar that remind us of the impact God has had, had, or will have on the world. Jesus never intended to be confined to two days on a human calendar but to be alive and transformative every day of our lives. Howard Thurman expressed this beautifully in his poem “The Mood of Christmas.”

“When the song of the angels is stilled,

When the star in the sky is gone,

When the kings and princes are home,

When the Shepherds are back with their flock,

                  The work of Christmas begins:

                  To find the lost,

                  To heal the broken,

                  To feed the hungry,

                  To release the prisoner,

                  To rebuild the nations,

                  To bring peace among people

                  To make music in the heart.”                (The Mood of Christmas by Howard Thurman)

Matthew added a twist to Luke’s account of Jesus’ birth. He introduced us to a small group of scholars from the East, who set out on a mission to find the true king who was meant to change the world. These “foreigners,” Gentiles, intellectuals, and advisors to kings—yet outside the Jewish faith—searched for the real meaning of Christmas. Others might have looked up at the night sky and seen the star, but did nothing to seek the truth.

Religious leaders knew the location from years of careful study of Scripture. When asked about where the Messiah was to be born, they knew precisely by quoting the prophets. They wanted a Messiah, on their own terms. What a difference if they had decided to join this band of seekers and follow the star. No doubt they gave good directions; unfortunately, they didn’t follow their own instructions to Bethlehem to find the Messiah.

This band of seekers wanted more than directions and more knowledge concerning the birthplace of the king of the Jews. They hadn’t traveled for weeks simply to talk with an earthly political leader; they sought the real king. This band of wise men didn’t need more information; their journey towards Christmas wouldn’t be complete until they saw the King of kings.

“After they had heard the king, they went on their way, and the star they had seen when it rose went ahead of them until it stopped over the place where the child was. When they saw the star, they were overjoyed. On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasures and presented him with gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh.” Matthew 2:9-11 NIV

These outsiders, seekers, scholars are a great example of those who understood the real meaning of Christmas. They willingly gave up comfort, prestige, and wealth to seek out the “one who has been born king of the Jews, the Messiah, the One who could bring real meaning to life.

“Not often, but every once in a while, God brings us to a major turning point—a great crossroads in our life. From that point we either go toward a more and more slow, lazy, and useless Christian life, or we become more and more on fire, giving our utmost for His highest—our best for His glory.” (Oswald Chambers)

What will you do with Christmas as we celebrate the arrival of 2026? Was it just another day that gets crossed off the calendar until next year? We can make our plans for 2026, and we should, but remember that they are subject to change often due to circumstances beyond our control. The one thing that remains certain is that God will be with us throughout 2026. “For to us a child is born…And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.” (Isaiah 9:6) There will be times in the coming year when these names and titles of Jesus will be our place of refuge and strength to face our challenges.

I pray that the hope, joy, and promise of Christmas continue throughout this year. Thank you for subscribing to and reading Prayer Safari each week.  I hope it offers a quick word of encouragement as we journey together on Safari. My desire is to honor God with each post.

Happy New Year!

God is great!

 

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Merry Christmas! Emmanuel, God with Us

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So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them. Luke 2:4-7 NIV

The need for a warm touch, a kind word, a gentle hug, or a caring smile is a welcome respite in our frantic, hurried world. Jumbo, a large, multi-site supermarket in the Netherlands, decided to find a way to make a difference. Jumbo launched a customer line, Kletskassa (chat checkouts or slow checkouts), in 2019. The objective of opening a slow lane was to offer a more personal, social shopping experience. The cashiers on the slow line spend extra time chatting with customers. “Sometimes innovation means slowing down operations rather than speeding them up.” (Catherine Douglas Moran, Grocery DIVE)

Colette Cloosterman-Van Eerd, the company’s Chief Commercial Officer, said in an interview, “Many people, especially the elderly, sometimes feel lonely. As a family business and supermarket chain, we are at the heart of society. Our shops are an important meeting place for many people, and we want to play a role in identifying and reducing loneliness.”

There will be times when we need the express lanes of life or even the self-checkout lines, but more often than not, we need the slower lines that nurture relationships and community. We need that warm hand to touch us, to encourage us, to lift us out of darkness, and to hold us steady against life’s storms.

I have never seen an intentional chat checkout line in the United States, though I have stood in countless slow lines that were not intentional. Given the pressures of Christmas shopping, I doubt if most people would welcome a slow line at Walmart. Yet there are life-changing moments that force us into the slow lane, and interruptions that play havoc with the most well-organized calendar. One of these is a birth!

The canopy of night had fallen on the little town of Bethlehem when all of eternity converged. Every home and lodging that night was crowded with families and strangers who had traveled long distances. Joseph and Mary finally found a warm, dry shelter, knowing the baby was coming. Scripture doesn’t record the actual birth details, but you can only imagine the panic on Joseph’s face when he heard Mary say, “The baby is coming.”

You can almost picture someone going to get the older woman in town who had delivered lots of babies.  She served as the midwife to countless young mothers and helped them give birth to their babies. Nothing out of the ordinary for her, she knew how to comfort the mother and quickly took charge of the delivery. The panic on Joseph’s face was relaxing just a bit, Mary was breathing again, and a host of angels were getting ready to sing. This unknown, unrecorded lady held Mary’s wiggling, crying baby. She tenderly caressed the little body, drying the baby off and gently handing Jesus to Mary. Yet for a moment in time, she held Emmanuel, God with Us, looking deeply into the eyes of the One who came that all might have life. Her strong but tender hands held for the first time, eternity in her hands.

Mary held her baby close to her heart, then wrapped him in the cloths she had brought. The King of Kings was laid in a manger filled with clean, fresh hay—the sounds of her baby’s cries breaking the stillness of the moment. Mary, through tears of joy and happiness, looked into the face of Emmanuel, God with us. You can almost hear Mary softly singing to her baby, “My soul glorifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for he has been mindful of the humble state of his servant. From now on, all generations will call me blessed, for the Mighty One has done great things for me—holy is his name.”

The quiet room was soon filled with shepherds who came seeking to find and worship the Messiah. They had heard the Good News and left their sheep to seek someone greater. “But the angel said to them, Do not be afraid, I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David, a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord.” (Luke 2:10-11)

“In the darkness of a church, the candles burn. They hold the darkness back, just barely hold it back. In the darkness of that Judean night, in the midst of nowhere, to parents who were nobody, the child was born, and whoever it was that delivered him, slapped his bare backside to start the breath going, and he cried out, as each on of us cried out, at the shock and strangeness of being born into the darkness of the world. Then, as the Gospels picture it, all heaven broke loose.” (Frederick Buechner, The Hungering Dark)

Heaven did burst open that night when “a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.” (Luke 2:13-14)

Advent has been a time of waiting, even as we struggled to find space among the many things to do, people to meet, and activities to attend. Maybe you don’t feel it has been as quiet and reflective as you wanted, but hopefully, there have been moments where you could quietly sit and reflect on the One who came for you.

Jesus, we celebrate your first coming and look forward to your return. In this Christmas season, we pause to say thank you for your love and redeeming us out of darkness.

Merry Christmas. Blessings to you and your family.

God is great!

Almost Christmas – Joy Overwhelming

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But the angel said to them, Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Luke 2:10 NIV

It happens to all of us. What happens? You expect something to occur, but then it doesn’t, or at least you think it hasn’t happened. Christmas probably ranks high on the list of times when you have needed to adjust expectations.

I was probably 9 or 10 when the realization hit me that I didn’t have any Christmas presents under the tree. Just for reference, it was probably still three weeks away from Christmas, but time was still close as a kid! My expectation was based on every Christmas past that I had at least a few presents under the tree. Granted, we were not wealthy by any stretch of the imagination, but there was always something. The smart thing would have been to ask my mother about the situation, but even at that age, I had a fixer mentality. So, the next trip into town, I took what I had saved up over the year and headed for the Ben Franklin store (a micro-mini Walmart) in our small town. I found something that I could buy with the money I had saved, and a very kind Mrs. Skaggs wrapped it for me.  I took my present home to put under the tree. The reality was that I would have had presents, but expectations don’t always match reality, especially at Christmas.

I wonder what expectations Mary had when she was chosen to be the mother of the promised Messiah. She had to have a lot of expectations, given that the announcement came directly from an angel. “But the angel said to her, Do not be afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God. You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High.” (Luke 1:30-32a)

Mary had one simple, procedural question: “How will this be, since I am a virgin? Once the angel gave her an answer, she willingly said, “I am the Lord’s servant. May your word to me be fulfilled.”

Did Mary think that her friends and family would be excited about the baby she carried? Young, unmarried, and pregnant didn’t fit well in her cultural setting. All we know is that “Mary got ready and hurried to a town in the hill country of Judea” to be with Zechariah and Elizabeth.

Did Mary think that Joseph would be excited about the baby she carried? “Because Joseph her husband was faithful to the law, and yet did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly.” (Matthew 1:19)

Did Mary think that she would have a high-profile birth? It wasn’t an unrealistic expectation given the royal status of the baby she carried. “The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David” (Luke 1:32b).

Did Mary think she would deliver in a palatial mansion? “So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no guest room available for them. Luke 2:4-8

Whatever expectations Mary had that night when she was told she would be the mother of the long-awaited and promised Messiah, reality quickly dashed them. Mary did not get a chance to fix up the nursery; she left quickly in a self-imposed exile to stay with Zechariah and Elizabeth in the Judean hill country.

It took an angel to persuade Joseph not to divorce Mary but to take her as his wife. Mary and Joseph walked a tough 70-90-mile journey over rough roads to reach the place where Jesus would be born.

Surely Jesus would be born in lavish surroundings, but even that expectation did not come true that night. Mary gave birth, and the baby was gently wrapped in cloth and laid in a simple, ordinary manger where animals ate their food.

Whatever expectations Mary might have had were entirely unimportant when she said yes to God. Mary’s yes brought her more joy and fulfillment than any expectations she might have had that first night. She came to a deeper understanding of God through obedience and trust. Although Mary had no idea what lay ahead when she said yes, she knew it was the only thing to do. Her song of praise expressed her heartfelt joy.

And Mary said, “My soul glorifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for he has been mindful of the humble state of his servant. From now on all generations will call me blessed, for the Mighty One has done great things for me—holy is his name. His mercy extends to those who fear him, from generation to generation. He has performed mighty deeds with his arm; he has scattered those who are proud in their inmost thoughts. He has brought down rulers from their thrones but has lifted up the humble. He has filled the hungry with good things but has sent the rich away empty. He has helped his servant Israel, remembering to be merciful to Abraham and his descendants forever, just as he promised our ancestors.” (Luke 1:46-55)

Advent is a time of waiting for something greater than we can ever imagine. Unfortunately, our expectations often fall short of reality. However, when our hearts are focused on the Christmas message of God’s love for the world as Emmanuel, God with us, then we will encounter the most incredible gift any of us could ever receive. “Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.” (Luke 2: 14)

God is great!

Finding Peace In the Waiting

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Comfort, comfort my people, says your God. Speak tenderly to Jerusalem, and proclaim to her that her hard service has been completed, that her sin has been paid for, that she has received from the LORD’s hand double for all her sins. A voice of one calling: “In the wilderness prepare the way for the LORD; make straight in the desert a highway for our God.” Every valley shall be raised up, every mountain and hill made low; the rough ground shall become level, the rugged places a plain. And the glory of the LORD will be revealed, and all people will see it together. For the mouth of the LORD has spoken. Isaiah 40: 1-5

How is your anxiety level as we get closer to Christmas? Are you making progress on your to-do list? Most of us will fall somewhere in between; it will never be completely done, and things are starting to come together. Finding peace can often be a challenge in the busyness of these days. However, it is nothing compared with Hedviga Golik’s story.

Hedviga Golik died alone in her parking lot-sized, 190-square-foot, one-room attic apartment in Zagreb, Croatia. However, the tragedy was not her death but how long it was before anyone discovered her body. No one came to investigate her disappearance for 42 years, even though she resided atop a four-story apartment building surrounded by other buildings. Finally, in May 2008, her door was broken down, and Golik’s mummified body was found lying in her bed with an empty tea cup next to her.

Golik’s disappearance from others’ lives was a complex story. She had told neighbors she would be gone for an indeterminate period. She was known for her eccentric lifestyle and frequent mood swings. During those 42 years, a war broke out in Yugoslavia, neighbors were involved in an ownership dispute over the supposedly empty apartment, and life just got busy. A tired nurse that night fixed herself a cup of tea and then simply vanished from anyone’s thoughts.

If someone were to ask you how much God loves you, what would you say? There are several good theological answers, but Christmas and Easter are the two most powerful responses you can give. “The Maker of the stars and sea, Become a child on earth for me.” (Poet John Betjeman)

“The joy he has in the Son, he has in us. The eternal commitment he has to the Son he has for us. We cannot fully understand God’s love for us by simply comparing it to human love. If you want to understand how much God loves you, meditate on his love for His Son. God’s love for you is at no greater risk than his love for his Son, and that is the best of news.” (Paul David Tripp)

I don’t know if Hedviga Golik had an answer that night she stepped into eternity. John understood fully when he penned the introduction to his gospel account, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God…In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it…The true light that gives light to everyone was coming into the world. (John 1:1,4,9)

“The true light has come. The message of the gospel is startling because it is true. It arrests attention, transforms hearts, changes destinations, and reshapes nations. It is good news for all, equally beautiful for every age and stage of life. It reaches every tribe, every tongue, every nation, announcing the evangelion, the good news: Jesus has arrived, and his light and life are a message of love for all.” (Sarah Yardley)

The popular Bible app, YouVersion, announced this week in a press release that its most-engaged verse for 2025 was Isaiah 41:10. This announcement and the selected verse are perfect as we focus on peace during the second week of the Advent season for Christmas. “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Bobby Gruenewald, YouVersion’s CEO, commenting on the verse, said, “In a world full of anxiety and uncertainty, people are drawn to God’s promise to be with us, to strengthen us, and to help us. That message never gets old because the need for it is universal and timeless.”

In a world filled with tension, brokenness, and unrest, two of the most relevant titles for  Jesus during this time in history are Emmanuel and Prince of Peace. Wherever we are in our life stage, we can take great comfort in calling on Emmanuel, God with Us. (Matthew 1:23). When we face anxiety and anxiousness, what a great comfort and assurance it is that Jesus is the one who walks with us. In these times, He brings overwhelming peace in our most difficult and stressful situations. Thankfully, we do not have to walk through dark times alone or without help.

Come, Emmanuel, Prince of Peace, shine your light into the darkest places, that the world might witness the brightness of your glory, full of grace and truth. (Sarah Yardley)

Traditional Christmas carols usually do not include “Turn Your Eyes upon Jesus,” but maybe they should, as we face the last three weeks of the Christmas season. Just maybe we need to find time in our busy schedules to simply be with Jesus.

“O soul, are you weary and troubled? No light in the darkness you see? There’s light for a look at the Savior, And life more abundant and free! Turn your eyes upon Jesus, Look full in his wonderful face, and the things of earth will grow strangely dim. In the light of his glory and grace.” (Baptist Hymnal, p 198, Helen Lemmel)

Come, Lord Jesus. Fill me afresh with your light that my life may shine brightly. Give me eyes to see this Christmas season those who are lonely, hurting, sad, and hopeless. Let me be an instrument of peace in their lives.

God is great!

Countdown to Christmas

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The people walking in darkness have seen a great light; a light has dawned on those living in the land of darkness. Isaiah 9:2 CSB

“I’ve learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.” I tend to agree with Maya Angelou’s words of wisdom as we enter this Christmas countdown. Many of us have experienced all three, and on rare occasions, on the same day.

Decorating for Christmas is a global ritual that welcomes the holiday season. According to a YouGov survey, 83% of Americans decorate for the holidays, with 79% decorating a Christmas tree. The when of decorating is a personal preference, but among those surveyed, 14% decorate before Thanksgiving, 48% the week after Thanksgiving, 23% the first week of December, and the rest in the second week of December or later. Other countries tend to follow Advent as their guide on when to decorate. I didn’t find any surveys on the percentage of people who struggle with tangled Christmas lights, but I did find that Vermont leads the United States as the number one state for Christmas decorating.

So, why do we decorate? Traditions are a big part of the reason, but many of us see them as a visual reminder of the Good News of Christmas. People want to hear good news, which explains the fascination with the Hallmark Channel’s predictable Christmas movies. The drama is woven into the story until the last few minutes, when everything comes together for the couple.

We decorate and give. The National Retail Federation estimated that in 2024, the United States’ spending averaged $902 per person, including gifts, food, and decorations. They are projecting this will drop to $890 in 2025. Yet, all of this spending amounts to about $950 billion annually.

This might be one reason the “7 gift rule” for Christmas has gained popularity. This is a new idea I came across during my research this year; the concept is to simplify holiday shopping by giving seven gifts to each person in your family. Each gift fits into a specific category: “Something they want, something they need, something to wear, something to read, something to do, something to eat, and something for the family.” Some people add an eighth category, something to charity.

We decorate, give, and some even untangle the Christmas lights. We enjoy the Hallmark movies, the brilliant light displays, the Christmas parties, and finally the mountain of unwrapped Christmas presents, but all of these together do not ultimately bring the good news we need. Pastor David Jeremiah says it well, “All the Christmas presents in the world are worth nothing without the presence of Christ.”

Sunday, November 30, marked the beginning of Advent, a church tradition that has been part of the Christian community since the 4th century. Celebrated differently across denominations and faith traditions, it prepares the heart and the church for the coming of Jesus Christ. Advent comes from the Latin adventus, meaning “coming” or “arrival.” The various Advent traditions help us keep our focus on Christ throughout a month that can become overwhelming in the busy schedules and activities. Whether part of your Sunday church service or observed at home, it can serve as a visual way to celebrate the Good News of Christmas.

Traditionally, Advent is marked each Sunday by lighting a different candle with a specific symbolic meaning. These five candles help to remind us of the coming of Jesus. “The central themes of Advent include hope, peace, joy, and love. These themes express key aspects of Christ’s coming, both two thousand years ago and in his return: Hope in his promises, peace through his reign, joy in his salvation, and love through his sacrifice.” (Britt Mooney)

The single flame in week one of Advent reminds us of the hope that is found in Jesus. Once we were “the people walking in darkness,” but now “have seen a great light.” That light of hope is found in Jesus.

For week two, we light the second candle of Peace. In a time when anxiety and hopelessness are common, the flames of the Peace candle remind us that Jesus is the Prince of Peace. “Comfort, comfort my people, says your God…” (Isaiah 40:1-5)

For week three, the light grows brighter as the candle of Joy is lit. We pray, even in the brokenness, “God, be our joy.” “The Spirit of the Lord God is on me, because the LORD has anointed me to bring good news to the poor. He has sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives and freedom to the prisoners…And they will be called righteous trees, planted by the LORD to glorify him.” (Isaiah 61:1-3)

For week four, the light of love joins with the other three, bringing light to any room. At the very core of Christmas is the message of love. God literally moves into the neighborhood as Immanuel, bringing salvation, redemption, and a future for all who call upon the name of Jesus. There is no greater message of Christmas than, “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16)

On Christmas Day, as the four candles burn, the fifth candle is lit, the Christ candle. The Christ candle, surrounded by hope, peace, joy, and love, visually conveys the message the world needs. “Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign: The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and will call him Immanuel.” (Isaiah 7:14)

The countdown clock towards Christmas ticks faster and faster each year, and you may occasionally need to reach up and stop it. This Christmas, maybe take an extra few minutes to sit and listen to your favorite songs, drink a mug of cocoa a little slower, and just enjoy looking at the untangled lights a little longer. If Jesus is the reason for the season, we may need to let Him have more of the season!

God is great!