Faith, Week Two of Advent
This all happened so that what was spoken by the Lord through the prophet would be fulfilled: “Look!” The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will name him Emmanuel,” which means “God with us. –Matthew 1:22-23 (NET)
Gaslighting! This is Merriam-Webster’s 2022 annual word of the year. It is probably a very good choice considering 2022 was the mid-term elections in the United States and gaslighting has been rampant. According to the Newport Institute, “gaslighting is a form of manipulation where the manipulator attempts to make their victim believe what’s happening to them isn’t actually happening and their reality is untrue.” The term comes from the 1938 play “Angel Street.” Alfred Hitchcock then turned the play into the 1944 film “Gaslight.” The story goes that the husband attempts to convince his wife she is crazy so he can steal from her. According to the Newport Institute, “when he turns on the lights in the attic to look for his wife’s jewels, the gas light downstairs starts to dim. He tells his wife it’s all in her imagination, gaslighting her into believing the lights were not dimming.” (USA Today)
Examples of Gaslighting given by the Newport Institute include:
- Lying about or denying something and refusing to admit the lie even when you show them proof
- Insisting that an event or behavior you witnessed never happened
- Spreading rumors and gossip about you, or telling you that other people are gossiping about you
- Telling you that you’re overreacting when you call them out
Gaslighting may be Merriam-Webster’s word of the year but the concept is as old as time. The Servant gaslighted Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden. “You will not certainly die,” the serpent said to the woman. “For God knows that when you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” –Gen 3:4 (NIV)
As we enter week two of the advent season, what does gaslighting have to do with Advent? Just like the husband in Hitchcock’s movie tries to convince his wife the lie is the truth, the same has been done with Satan throughout human history. He seeks to manipulate and convince the world that God’s truth and love are not true. Paul wrote “The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel that displays the glory of Christ, who is the image of God.” (2 Corinthians 4:4 NIV)
Since the first deception, humans have been deceived into believing what wasn’t true. Advent is a time of waiting and reflecting on the promised coming of the Messiah. What makes waiting bearable is the fact we are waiting based on the rock-solid promises given by God. Over the years much of our culture has been gaslighted into believing another story and only seeing the glitter and glamour of a holiday instead of the true meaning of Christmas. Advent is a time when we wait in faith for the coming Messiah simply because God is faithful to His word and has never broken a promise.
Luke records the incredible faith in Simeon’s story as he waited a lifetime for the coming Messiah. “Now there was a man in Jerusalem named Simeon who was righteous and devout, looking for the restoration of Israel, and the Holy Spirit was upon him. It had been revealed to him by the Holy Spirit that he would not die before he had seen the Lord’s Christ. So Simeon, directed by the Spirit, came into the temple courts, and when the parents brought in the child Jesus to do for him what was customary according to the law, Simeon took him in his arms and blessed God.” (2:25-28 NET)
Simeon was able to wait because he knew God would be faithful in his promise to send a Savior. “For my eyes have seen your salvation that you have prepared in the presence of all peoples: a light, for revelation to the Gentiles, and for glory to your people Israel.” –Luke 2:30-32 (NET)
“Unfulfilled and fulfilled promise are related to each other, as are dawn and sunrise. Both promise and in fact the same promise. If anywhere at all, then it is precisely in the light of the coming of Christ that faith has become Advent faith, the expectation of future revelation. But faith knows for whom and for what it is waiting. It is fulfilled faith because it lays hold on the fulfilled promise.” – Karl Barth
December is probably the busiest month of the year. We struggle with questions about what to buy the children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews, and everyone else. We are trying to schedule all the parties, church events, and shopping until we realize we forgot Christmas. It is quite possible the Advent season can work much like a check engine light in our car, alerting us that something needs our attention.
Advent beautifully reminds us that God doesn’t have a word of the year, He has a Word for eternity.
“A voice of one calling: “In the wilderness prepare the way for the LORD; make straight in the desert a highway for our God. Every valley shall be raised up, every mountain and hill made low; the rough ground shall become level,” the rugged places a plain. And the glory of the LORD will be revealed, and all people will see it together.
For the mouth of the LORD has spoken.” –Isaiah 40:3-5
God is great!
Thanks for this post! I had seen the article about “gaslighting” being the word of the year, but never connected it to Advent! The evil one certainly does NOT “play fair” and only seeks to destroy & steal. We need the Light of Truth!