Refuge in the Shelter of God’s Wings

Let me dwell in your tent forever; let me take refuge in the shelter of your wings. Psalm 61:4 NASB

The better part of prayer is not the asking but the being with God, resting in His shelter, knowing He knows me and wants to be with me. Why would I not want to be with Him? It is easy to pray in the easy afternoons of spring, but it is in the cold nights of winter that our prayers give life.

Ben Sasse is now living in the cold winter of the night, yet not with fear and defeat. You would know Sasse as a former U.S. Senator from Nebraska, President of the University of Florida, public servant, devoted husband and father, but also a man dying of Stage 4 pancreatic cancer.

What gives him hope isn’t the chance of a medical cure, although he is exploring all options. What gives him hope isn’t his determination, even though he writes, “he would not be going down without a fight.” What sustains his hope is his unwavering faith in Jesus Christ. Sasse announced his battle with cancer in December 2025, two days before Christmas. In his news release, he said, “As a Christian, the weeks running up to Christmas are a time to orient our hearts toward the hope of what’s to come. Not an abstract hope in fanciful human goodness; not hope in vague hallmark-sappy spirituality; not a bootstrapped hope in our own strength… We hope in a real Deliverer—a rescuing God, born at a real time, in a real place. But the eternal city—with foundations and without cancer—is not yet.”

Life often catches us off guard. What will we do when it does? The Psalmist encourages us to learn to rest in God’s shelter. It will be the only place where we can endure the storms that might otherwise overwhelm us quickly. “The trials of life are sent to make us, not to break us. Financial troubles may destroy a person’s business, but build up his character. And a direct blow to the outer person may be the greatest blessing possible to the inner person. So if God places or allows anything difficult in our lives, we can be sure that the real danger or trouble will be what we will lose if we run or rebel against it.” (Maltbie D. Babcock)

Our prayer life is a pivotal hinge that prevents everything from coming completely unhinged. Yet, walking into those dark winters of our soul, prayer can seem the most unattainable place we can find. One of my favorite writers is Tim Keller, who wrote a great book simply called “Prayer.” Keller wrote, “What is prayer, then, in the fullest sense? Prayer is continuing a conversation that God has started through his Word and his grace, which eventually becomes a full encounter with him.” (Prayer, p 48)

Keller outlined the importance and power of prayer throughout nearly 321 pages of his book. However, it was during his own dark night a decade later, when he was diagnosed with Stage 4 Pancreatic Cancer, that he would say in an interview on the podcast Premier Unbelievable, “Despite the pain and fear associated with cancer, he and his wife, Kathy, would never want to go back to the kind of prayer life and spiritual life we had before the cancer. Never.”

 Jim Denison, writing in Denison Forum, shared what it means to trust God with our pain. “First, when we trust God with our pain, we can experience his presence and comfort on a level we could not before the suffering came. Second, when we trust God with our pain, he can use us in ways he could not before the suffering came. Third, when we trust God with our pain, he can use our suffering to guide us into his purpose in ways he could not before the suffering came.”

Learning to take refuge in God’s shelter is critical because it is life-giving. The Apostle Paul understood what it meant to face challenges. Paul’s resume of suffering and pain was impressive: “Five times I received from the Jews the forty lashes minus one. Three times I was beaten with rods, once I was pelted with stones, three times I was shipwrecked, I spent a night and day in the open sea, I have been constantly on the move. I have been in danger from rivers, in danger from bandits, in danger from my fellow Jews, in danger from Gentiles; in danger in the city, in danger in the country, in danger at sea; and in danger from false believers…I have known hunger and thirst and have often gone without food; I have been cold and naked…If I must boast, I will boast of the things that show my weakness.” (2 Corinthians 11:24-27,30)

Paul understood the meaning of pain and didn’t shy away from these challenges for the sake of Jesus. Yet he also wasn’t afraid to ask God to remove the thorn that tormented him. “Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me.” Still, Paul trusted God for the outcome even as he heard God say, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Paul may have desired a different answer, but he valued God’s purpose more—so much so that he was willing to say, “That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” (2 Cor 12:8-9,10)

It is in the shelter of God’s wings that we finally become all we are meant to be. Tim Keller has completed his earthly journey; Ben Sasse will finish his, as will we. Yet it is only then that we will truly understand what it means to live. “You must hand yourself and all your inward experiences, your temptations, your temperament, your frames and feelings, all over into the care and keeping of your God, and leave them there. He made you and therefore He understands you, and knows how to manage you, and you must trust Him to do it.” –Hannah Whitall Smith

God is great!