The Road to Easter – Mary’s Journey

Near the cross of Jesus stood his mother, his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene. When Jesus saw his mother there, and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to her, “Woman, here is your son, and to the disciple, “Here is your mother.” From that time on, this disciple took her into his home. John 19:25-27 NIV

Easter – cute little bunnies or a rugged cross, church services or spring break, chocolate, or fasting. Most Americans still view Easter according to a BarnaGroup survey as a religious event but only a minority linked Easter to the Christian faith’s belief in the resurrection of Jesus. Regardless of your church traditions related to Lent, we all can use this season as a time of preparation, reflection, and repentance as we journey toward Easter.

The pages of Scripture are filled with the stories of men and women whom God used to prepare the road that ultimately Jesus would walk on as Savior. Men and women of faith and failure, vision and blindness, obedience and rebellion defined those that God used. Jesus’ steps on the road were made ready through God’s mercy and grace until the final fulfillment on Calvary.

We all know Mary’s story at Christmas but what about her own journey towards Easter? We often forget Mary’s road to Easter came because of her yes to God’s invitation to join in the greatest story that would ever be told, a story of redemption, grace, and mercy.

Mary gets a brief mention from Matthew’s account of Jesus’ birth. Birth announcements were not Mark and John’s thing in writing their accounts of the gospel story but we learn a lot about Mary from Luke’s account. Mary heard an announcement that would change her life and all the generations that followed. “Do not be afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God. You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus.” (Luke 1:30-31)

God asked Mary to do what seemed impossible and was willing to wait for her answer. Mary’s journey toward Easter would not be easy, she was afraid, not married, young, and seemingly unsuited for such a task. What if Mary had said no? What would God do?

God would have respected Mary’s decision but it wouldn’t have changed God’s plan of redemption, but it would have changed what God was going to do through Mary. She would have missed out on God’s blessings for her and she would have missed out on God’s touch of intimacy in her life.

Mary’s no would still have found her cooking suppers for her family but not for God. Mary would still have cleaned house, made conversation with her neighbors, walked to the market daily, went to the temple to worship as a good religious woman, and would still have done a myriad of routine things.

What an amazing difference for Mary when she said yes. Her yes gave her the joy of feeding the King of Kings, clothing the Royal Priest daily, and watching with joy as the Prince of Peace played.

Mary could have said no but at what cost though her yes would not have been an easy answer either. She would hear all the hateful talk about her son, the gossip from the neighbors about her and Joseph, the sleepless nights worrying about Jesus as he traveled from village to village and finally the horror of watching her son being beaten, spit on, and finally nailed to a cross.

“Are we willing to surrender our grasp on all that we possess, our desires, and everything else in our lives? Are we ready to be identified with the death of Jesus Christ? Make a determination to go on through the crisis surrendering all that you have and all that you are to Him. And God will then equip you to do all that He requires of you.”—Oswald Chambers

Each of the Gospel writers highlighted different aspects of the final moments of Jesus’ death yet each made special note of the women who held vigilance at the cross. Each one listed different women by name, as well as a general grouping, but only John recorded Mary’s name among the women who gathered in those heart-rendering moments of Jesus’ final hours. What Mary must have felt watching his excruciating suffering, his cries of pain, and yet for her to hear Jesus speak his final words, “It is finished” and remember the angel’s word to her, “He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High…and he will reign over Jacob’s descendants forever; his kingdom will never end.”(Luke 1:32-33)

It’s easy to say, well God already knew she would say yes because God does know everything. However, God chose Mary because of her tender spirit.  “I am the Lord’s servant,” Mary answered, “May your word to me be fulfilled.” (Luke 1:38) Can the same be said of us today? Do we have hearts tender and open to God?  He waits for us patiently and will walk with us as we make our decisions.

Would Mary have said yes if she had known what lay ahead? Thankfully she didn’t know just as we don’t know what lies ahead. Yet because she trusted God’s mercy and grace in the same way we are called to trust in faith and obedience, I am certain the answer would be yes.

As we walk on this path towards Easter, I found this quote from an old Puritan writer that expresses our journey well, “Christ often embitters our comforts that he may be all the more sweeter. Outside of God there is nothing fit to secure the soul upon. Riches, honours, friends, etc., are not given for security to rest upon, but for comforts in our way to heaven.” (Richard Sibbes)

Walking on this road to Easter we will find times of great stress and uncomfortable situations, yet as Jesus walked ahead of us, we know Easter does bring hope and new life.

God is great!