Going Against the Grain

Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. Romans 12:2 NIV

“Most people do not have a problem with you thinking for yourself, as long as your conclusions are the same as or at least compatible with their beliefs.” The late South African author and philosopher Mokokoma Mokhonoana put it well about conformity. Our world is where we live our daily lives, whether rural or urban, young or old, male or female, conservative or liberal, or any other grouping we choose. Our world has certain expectations that we call norms, traditions, or cultural identity. If you happen to wander outside the perceived lines, you quickly get tagged. You are identified as “one of them” instead of “one of us.”

“The simplistic way of not conforming is to see what is in style in our culture and then do the opposite. If short hair is in vogue, the nonconformist wears long hair. If going to the movies is popular, then Christians avoid movies as “worldly.” The extreme case of this may be seen in groups that refuse to wear buttons or use electricity because such things, too, are worldly.” (R.C. Sproul)

Paul cared more about the church than about external matters, unless those matters brought disrepute on the church or caused unbelievers to walk away from Jesus because of lifestyle issues. Paul wrote his letter to Christians who would definitely be considered non-conformists. Rome, the world’s political and economic powerhouse at the time, had definite ideas about how people should live, worship, believe, and act. Everyone had their place in society and culture, with the not-so-subtle requirement that they not deviate from the expected patterns. These early followers of Jesus quickly challenged the expectations for how people were supposed to live, introducing a whole new paradigm of faith.

Theologian R. C. Sproul wrote about nonconformity in his book, The Holiness of God, where he said, “A superficial style of nonconformity is the classical pharisaical trap. The kingdom of God is not about buttons, movies, or dancing. The concern of God is not focused on what we eat or what we drink. The call of nonconformity is a call to a deeper level of righteousness that goes beyond externals. When piety is defined exclusively in terms of externals, the whole point of the apostle’s teaching has been lost. Somehow, we have failed to hear Jesus’ words that it is not what goes into a person’s mouth that defiles a person, but what comes out of that mouth. We still want to make the kingdom a matter of eating and drinking.” (R. C. Sproul, The Holiness of God)

Living with your life focused on Jesus often puts you at odds with current cultural trends, political views, and lifestyle choices. Jesus fully understood that those who would follow Him would be forced into challenging positions. Yet He did not sugarcoat the requirements for His followers. “Then Jesus said to his disciples, Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me.” (Matthew 16:24 NIV).

William Tyndale became a nonconformist when he challenged the established religious authority by translating the Bible into English. His work ultimately led to his being burned at the stake. Yet in death, his final words were, “Lord, open the king of England’s eyes.”

Rev. Bernard Randall became a nonconformist after preaching a sermon advocating freedom of belief over gender identity. His commitment to upholding Biblical truth cost him his job as a chaplain and his standing as a priest in the Church of England. A settlement was finally reached, clearing him of wrongdoing. Randall wrote, “Seven years have been taken from me for doing my duty as a C of E chaplain in a school with a C of E ethos. I encouraged pupils to think, to debate, and to love their neighbors whatever they believed. No minister, teacher, or chaplain should be punished for upholding Christian teaching in a Christian setting.”

Paivi Rasanen, former Finnish Minister of the Interior, found herself a nonconformist when she upheld biblical beliefs about marriage and sexual ethics over current cultural trends. “I stand by the teachings of my Christian faith and will continue to defend my and every person’s right to share their convictions in the public square.” In a letter to the U.S. House Judiciary Committee, she wrote, “Without the criminal charges imposed on me, I would not have had the exceptional chance to share my Christian faith in police stations, courtrooms, and through live broadcasts and press conferences heard around the world.”

“The call to nonconformity is choosing faith over fear, truth over trends, and compassion over canceling. It’s rejecting popular opinion, peer pressure, and political correctness when those are at odds with the will of God. The fear of man is epidemic, but there is a cure – the fear of God that sets us free from every other fear.” (Mark Batterson, from pre-release of his new book, Not My Circus).

These early believers in Rome practiced nonconformity until they had redefined the surrounding pagan culture. They offered their “bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God” (Romans 12:1). They met in homes as a community rather than allowing social status to define who they were. They fellowshipped together, learned together, and worshipped together (Acts 2:42). They were nonconformists in how they ministered to each other’s needs, pooling resources to help one another. “They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need” (Acts 2:45).

These believers’ houses became places of worship and centers of hospitality, welcoming anyone who wanted to learn more about Jesus. These nonconformists lived differently from the world. They did not conform to the world, but by living transformed lives, they changed their world.

Today, we face new challenges in living out our faith, yet we must still choose not to conform to the world’s pattern and be transformed by the renewing of our minds. Jesus is worth the cost of refusing to conform to the world’s patterns!

God is great!

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