In Our Worst Moments, Jesus Is There

I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us. For the creation waits in eager expectation for the children of God to be revealed. Romans 8:18-19 NIV

What do you do when life doesn’t seem on track? Do you look to Jesus for clarity? What if he doesn’t seem to respond? It is hard to stay focused when our minds are pulled in multiple directions and how we respond makes all the difference. Dave Veerman reminds us, “Remember, Jesus is never late. In his infinite understanding, perfect timing, and deep concern, he will hear your cry, answer your prayer, and bring life. In the meantime, keep resting in his sovereignty and trusting in his love.”

In the beautiful Blue Ridge Mountains of Virginia, a small, neat row of 20 simple stones dots the countryside. No names are carved on the stones, and without the story, their purpose is unclear. Undisturbed for more than 100 years, these simple stones mark the final resting place of Orelena and John Puckett’s babies. Married at 16, they moved to the rugged Appalachian wilderness to start a new life together. In 1862, she gave birth to Julia Ann, their first baby, who died a few months later of diphtheria.

Orelena became pregnant 24 times, but not one baby lived past infancy, and no baby ever called her mama. Baby after baby was laid to rest in the neat row, marked by a stone. The woman who would never know the love of her own baby would go on to deliver over 1,000 babies. In her mid-forties, she found her calling as a midwife and, over the next 49 years, traveled the mountains of Virginia, helping deliver babies. Orlena had no formal training or modern equipment, but she had an unwavering determination that no baby would die if she could prevent it. She delivered her last baby at 94, never losing a single baby or mother. Aunt Orlena left a legacy of compassion and care. (sources: National Park Service, Library of Virginia, and NC History Center)

What a great comfort Orelena would have had if she had been able to read the book of Job. Unfortunately, Orelena did not know how to read, but she would have found encouragement and hope in Job’s life as he faced adversity that did not make sense to him. Job redefined tragedy for all of us. Job’s morning began as usual until one messenger after another arrived. First, he heard that his oxen and donkeys had all been stolen. Then another reported that all his sheep and the servants had died in a natural disaster. Then another reported that all his camels had been stolen and his workers murdered. Then the last messenger brought the worst news, that all of his sons and daughters were dead, killed in a storm.

One horrible event after another left Job with nothing. His wealth, family, and health were gone. What did Job have left? Integrity, righteousness, and an unwavering faith in God. Job’s story shows how to respond to overwhelming catastrophe: “At this, Job got up and tore his robe and shaved his head. Then he fell to the ground in worship.” (Job 2:20). Job modeled lament mixed with worship, devastation with faith, and loss with trust.

What can you do when faced with a Job-sized dilemma? You reach a place where you can hear God’s voice rather than the naysayers, even if they are friends or family members. Job’s three friends kept telling him that if only he would repent, God would restore his fortune. His wife came to him and said, “Are you still maintaining your integrity? Curse God and die!” (Job 2:9)

Job desperately needed to hear God’s voice, so God captured Job’s attention with a powerful rebuke. “The LORD said to Job: “Will the one who contends with the Almighty correct him? Let him who accuses God answer him!’” (Job 40:1-2) Then came question after question until Job finally reached the point where he could hear God and say, “I know that you can do all things; no purpose of yours can be thwarted… My ears had heard of you, but now my eyes have seen you.” (42:2,5)

Where do you turn when faced with a Job-sized dilemma? Joni Eareckson Tada was an energetic, full-of-life 17-year-old until a tragic diving accident left her a quadriplegic. She came to embrace her limitations and, for nearly 60 years, has lived by God’s love and strength. “Heartache forces us to embrace God out of desperate, urgent need. God is never closer than when your heart is aching. True wisdom is found in trusting God when you can’t figure things out.”

Who are you when a crisis seems ready to overwhelm you? If your identity is bound up in the problem, you will begin to look like the problem. If your identity is bound up in Jesus, you will be transformed and become a transformer. “For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” (Ephesians 2:10 NIV)

Orelena could have found her identity as a woman who lost 24 babies, but she chose to define herself by bringing life to hundreds of babies in a time when infant mortality was estimated to be 30-50%. Job could have found his identity in his devastating losses, but he chose to define himself by being righteous and faithful. Joni could have found her identity in being a quadriplegic, but she chose to define herself by helping others. She founded Joni and Friends, an organization devoted to providing “practical hope and Gospel hope to people with disabilities around the world.”

“The resurrection means that our grief and sorrow and pain have an expiration date. The world as it is now is under the curse, but God will lift it once and for all. (Rev 22:3) No more sin. No more cancer. No more dementia. No more suffering. No more death. God “will swallow up death forever” (Isaiah 25:8) –Randy Alcorn

I am so thankful that God meets us in our worst moments. He is with us through it all, giving us the encouragement, strength, and hope to face another day. In Christ, God is at work to restore, redeem, and rebuild what has been destroyed.

God is great!

A weekly devotional post to offer encouragement, hope, and purpose found in Jesus.